Whats in a Word?

The three words we've all heard countless times:
i love you.

in my opinion, that phrase is used waay too much.
it should be used after you start actually dating,
not before. if you say it too soon, its just weird.
i think one of the biggest mistakes guys make is
saying "i love you" too soon. they may claim they
"really mean it," but i don't believe it.
and if they say it after you break up, its also awkward.
they may still love you, but its not helping with the
"staying friends".
i totally understand if a girl says "i love you" to another girl,
or a guy that she is honestly just friends with.
i hate it when guys think they know you well enough
to say they love you, after only a day or so of dating.
i mean, lawrence did that to whoredon.
not a good couple to be compared to, is it?
here's my definition of i love you...

i love you- V. to give someone the ability to break your heart, but trusting them not to; a state of loving someone so much that you are afraid to lose them.

i hope this blog has helped you, and i hope you've learned that the phrase: "i love you" should not be used lightly.

tips:
lets say your guy has told you he loves you, and its too soon for you.

• tell him straight up "wait until you actually mean it."
• say something like "<333">
• ignore it, and see if he stops saying it.
• talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.